Let every one of us please his neighbor for his good. (Romans 15:2, KJV)
…in honor preferring one another. (Rom. 12:10, KJV)
or, as the ESV puts it
Outdo one another in showing honor.
Of course, we cannot compromise and approve of sin, but love does “cover a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8). In our relationships with others, we must be seeking to do what is best for them and not be obsessed with what we want or need.
My personality is such that I tend to be sensitive to others feelings and try to be accommodating and flexible. Unfortunately, sometimes that is motivated by the fear of what others think of me, rather than by love for them! My kids, much to my chagrin, often seem oblivious to others: running ahead and cutting others off, insisting on being near the front of the line at potluck meals, refusing to share, etc. Part of that is probably lack of training on my part and immaturity on theirs; but “mutual accommodation” really requires a change of heart that only God can bring about. It is love in action.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. (1 Cor. 13:4-8a, ESV)
I pray that love would be manifested in my life and the lives of my children.
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